Leiden Book Club Book 5 – Lolita

Lolita Review


There is something strangely uncomfortable about recommending a book about the sexual relationship between a middle-aged man and his twelve-year-old stepdaughter. Yet I find myself doing exactly that.

Lolita, by Vladimir Nabokov, is not a comfortable book. The content is certainly uncomfortable. At least, for me, it was – I mean, Humbert Humbert is a middle-aged sexual pervert and a murderer and Dolores seems quite happy to receive his sexual attentions. However, it was not the content that I found to be most unsettling; rather, it was the subtle manner that Nabokov was able to elicit sympathy from me for Humbert. I am quite certain that was due to his seductively beautiful prose, but nonetheless, I was shocked to find myself feeling sympathetic for Humbert without even realising when I had begun to feel sympathy for him. Not only that, but Nabokov seemed to have convinced me that demonising Humbert as the ‘bad guy’ was the too easy, default position. For the remainder of the novel, I regularly reminded myself to remain objective so as not to be swayed by the all-too-persuasive author and narrator.

Despite its unsettling nature, Lolita is far from an erotic novel, with almost no erotic content. In fact, regular erotica fiction readers would find it positively lame and Nabokov himself continuously denied its classification as pornography. Rather, Lolita’s seduction is in its prose. If you read Lolita with no prejudice (as hard as that may be), Nabokov’s poetic prose transcends the novel’s sexual and ethical dimensions. Grooming, seducing and taking advantage of a (pre)pubescent girl by an adult male is, sadly, a common occurrence, yet Nabokov has managed to defamiliarise this familiar story. Whilst I do not endorse the behaviours described in Lolita, I do admire Nabokov’s virtuosity and inventiveness in rendering Humbert’s transgressive sexual acts as beautiful, sensual and almost loving. The ‘almost’ is important. That Nabokov can get so close in convincing us that Humbert loves his little Lolita is a testament to his mastery as a writer.

If you cringe at the thought of reading Lolita (I will admit: I did), if reading is a comfortable place for you, then I encourage you to leave your comfort zone and pick up this masterpiece. Lolita is a must-do for all the avid readers out there. You will never think of any other author or read any other novel in the same way ever again.



1. Did you squirm or cringe while reading Lolita? Why? If you didn’t, why not?

2. Is Humbert Humbert a paedophile, murderer or neither? Or both

3. Is Dolores (aka Lolita) a child exhibiting traits of sexual and psychological abuse or a sexually precocious child? Discuss


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Genevieve Chan

Genevieve is a happy, go-lucky, free-spirited woman who is always on the lookout for a new adventure to whisk her away from her public servant day job. When she’s not dancing, running, walking or cycling, you’ll find her helping her husband in their courtyard vegetable garden, cooking or eating (or both) reading and – of course – writing. She’s trying to be a freelancer; search for ‘Freelance Apprentice’ on YouTube and Instagram to follow her journey.

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