Sex

When Consent Changes: Sex and Mental Health

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  Mental health is an extremely common denominator when it comes to interacting with people, and one in four people will be affected by mental or neurological disorders at some point in their life. These kind of disorders can range from depression and anxiety to more psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorders and can vary depending on the person, their chemical balances and their lifestyles. I believe in tearing down the walls when it comes to the stigma that is mental health as I suffer from depression, anxiety and addiction due to the traumatic experience of divorcing my… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

Playing The Part: The Time I Followed a Porn Star’s Advice

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  Those of you who may be living under a rock may not know the joys of Jesse Jane — one of the adult entertainment world’s biggest stars. Jesse has starred in over a hundred pornographic videos and features with the pornographic studio Digital Playground, including Pirates and Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge, which are to date the most expensive porn movies ever made. She’s also starred in tons of movies based on every sexy costume you can think of including military themes, fire-women, nurses, cheerleaders and babysitters. Jesse Jane is one of the most popular and successful names in porn.… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

The Masochist and the Beast

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  In the last year or so I have started getting more and more into BDSM. It started off as a simple request for choking — the guy I was with was someone I had been seeing for a while and was a paramedic so I trusted his ability to look after me. But more to the actual reason: I honestly wasn’t in the best of places emotionally and I sought out different ways to feel physical pain as a way to feel something other than the aching of my broken heart. I’m in no way saying that this is… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

Diary of a Cam Girl

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a stripper, or to take your clothes off for money? Most ladies have toyed with this idea at least once in their lives, and honestly it can be a great and empowering way to pay your rent. But the idea tends to go just as quickly as it came when people consider the social implications and also the fact that you have to be confident enough to take your clothes off for strangers. It can be a nerve-wracking experience, so people tend to utilise this illicit style fantasy… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

The Problem with a Monster Cock

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  Since the days of school locker room comparisons, some guys have a real issue with penis size. Is it too small? Is it too thin? Is it big and thick enough to provide adequate pleasure? Are you man enough to handle a big hunk of sausage? We girls all have our similar hang-ups when it comes to boob sizes, so we get it. As a general rule amongst males, it seems preferable that guys have big giant monster dicks, and some girls dig this too. But I’m about to squash your dreams. Sorry. I’ve had all manner of dicks… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

An Ode To Face Sitting

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  Oral pleasure is one of my favourite sexual acts and it is always interesting when your partner and you come up with different ways to incite your favourite pleasures. But what happens if you dive into a deeper world of sexual fantasies and experimentation, only to find the act in question – while consensual – is also dangerous? This was a unique situation I found myself in with a guy I was dating who loved asphyxiation via face sitting. Now depending on the person, face sitting isn’t necessarily everyone’s cup of tea – it certainly isn’t mine, and it… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

The Rule of Thirds: Should You Wait Until The Third Date To Have Sex?

Bunny Butterscotch Leave a Comment

  There are many rules when it comes to dating, but one of the most well known is that you shouldn’t sleep with someone until the third date. The ideology behind this is that you can set boundaries for yourself and for others, that you can figure out if you actually like the person and get to know them first, and also so that you are not seen as ‘easy’ or a ‘slut’. Some people swear by the third date rule while others take a ‘who cares?’ approach. But in this modern age of dating, ghosting and Tinder does waiting… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share

In Defence of Unsexy Sex

Elle Summers Leave a Comment

  It wasn’t meant to be like this. It was meant to be candlelight and a perfectly curated playlist and rose petals on the bed and me opening the front door to you in nothing but a silk dressing gown; yet here we are, on a rainy Tuesday night, and I can hear the neighbour’s radio while the smell of the weekly batch of chilli wafts in from the kitchen and I’m having sex wearing a scarf; and not a sexy scarf, I might add. It’s the type of chunky-knit woollen scarf that one’s grandmother makes them because our tiny,… Continue Reading →

Share
Pin
Share