Playing The Part: The Time I Followed a Porn Star’s Advice


  Those of you who may be living under a rock may not know the joys of Jesse Jane — one of the adult entertainment world’s biggest stars. Jesse has starred in over a hundred pornographic videos and features with the pornographic studio Digital Playground, including Pirates and Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge, which are to date the most expensive porn movies ever made. She’s also starred in tons of movies based on every sexy costume you can think of including military themes, fire-women, nurses, cheerleaders and babysitters. Jesse Jane is one of the most popular and successful names in porn.… Continue Reading

The Masochist and the Beast


  In the last year or so I have started getting more and more into BDSM. It started off as a simple request for choking — the guy I was with was someone I had been seeing for a while and was a paramedic so I trusted his ability to look after me. But more to the actual reason: I honestly wasn’t in the best of places emotionally and I sought out different ways to feel physical pain as a way to feel something other than the aching of my broken heart. I’m in no way saying that this is… Continue Reading

Diary of a Cam Girl


  Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a stripper, or to take your clothes off for money? Most ladies have toyed with this idea at least once in their lives, and honestly it can be a great and empowering way to pay your rent. But the idea tends to go just as quickly as it came when people consider the social implications and also the fact that you have to be confident enough to take your clothes off for strangers. It can be a nerve-wracking experience, so people tend to utilise this illicit style fantasy… Continue Reading

The Problem with a Monster Cock


  Since the days of school locker room comparisons, some guys have a real issue with penis size. Is it too small? Is it too thin? Is it big and thick enough to provide adequate pleasure? Are you man enough to handle a big hunk of sausage? We girls all have our similar hang-ups when it comes to boob sizes, so we get it. As a general rule amongst males, it seems preferable that guys have big giant monster dicks, and some girls dig this too. But I’m about to squash your dreams. Sorry. I’ve had all manner of dicks… Continue Reading

An Ode To Face Sitting


  Oral pleasure is one of my favourite sexual acts and it is always interesting when your partner and you come up with different ways to incite your favourite pleasures. But what happens if you dive into a deeper world of sexual fantasies and experimentation, only to find the act in question – while consensual – is also dangerous? This was a unique situation I found myself in with a guy I was dating who loved asphyxiation via face sitting. Now depending on the person, face sitting isn’t necessarily everyone’s cup of tea – it certainly isn’t mine, and it… Continue Reading

The Rule of Thirds: Should You Wait Until The Third Date To Have Sex?


  There are many rules when it comes to dating, but one of the most well known is that you shouldn’t sleep with someone until the third date. The ideology behind this is that you can set boundaries for yourself and for others, that you can figure out if you actually like the person and get to know them first, and also so that you are not seen as ‘easy’ or a ‘slut’. Some people swear by the third date rule while others take a ‘who cares?’ approach. But in this modern age of dating, ghosting and Tinder does waiting… Continue Reading

In Defence of Unsexy Sex


  It wasn’t meant to be like this. It was meant to be candlelight and a perfectly curated playlist and rose petals on the bed and me opening the front door to you in nothing but a silk dressing gown; yet here we are, on a rainy Tuesday night, and I can hear the neighbour’s radio while the smell of the weekly batch of chilli wafts in from the kitchen and I’m having sex wearing a scarf; and not a sexy scarf, I might add. It’s the type of chunky-knit woollen scarf that one’s grandmother makes them because our tiny,… Continue Reading

Get Ready to Smile with this Incredible Range of Vibrators


  An idle scroll through our Facebook feed the other day alerted us to the fact that online retailer Nourished Life has just started stocking cult vibrator brand Smile Makers. And people, including us, are certainly smiling because that means they are easily (and discreetly) available in Australian dollars. After a trip into her local sex store, one of Smile Makers co-founders left feeling disappointed in the range of products available. To her, what was on offer felt tasteless and offensive. And so after a lot of market research the Smile Makers journey began to create a brand who’s mission… Continue Reading