When Consent Changes: Sex and Mental Health


  Mental health is an extremely common denominator when it comes to interacting with people, and one in four people will be affected by mental or neurological disorders at some point in their life. These kind of disorders can range from depression and anxiety to more psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorders and can vary depending on the person, their chemical balances and their lifestyles. I believe in tearing down the walls when it comes to the stigma that is mental health as I suffer from depression, anxiety and addiction due to the traumatic experience of divorcing my… Continue Reading

In Defence of ‘The Roster’


  Do you remember that movie starring Zac Efron called Are We Officially Dating? You probably don’t because it was a terrible movie but basically the main part that you need to know is that Zac Efron’s character is a well known playboy who lives his life by ‘The Roster’. Efron explains in the movie that the roster is when he rotates through a series of women throughout the days of the week to maximise on the sex and keep the emotions at arms length. He determines when it is time to cut a girl from the roster when she… Continue Reading

Playing The Part: The Time I Followed a Porn Star’s Advice


  Those of you who may be living under a rock may not know the joys of Jesse Jane — one of the adult entertainment world’s biggest stars. Jesse has starred in over a hundred pornographic videos and features with the pornographic studio Digital Playground, including Pirates and Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge, which are to date the most expensive porn movies ever made. She’s also starred in tons of movies based on every sexy costume you can think of including military themes, fire-women, nurses, cheerleaders and babysitters. Jesse Jane is one of the most popular and successful names in porn.… Continue Reading

The Masochist and the Beast


  In the last year or so I have started getting more and more into BDSM. It started off as a simple request for choking — the guy I was with was someone I had been seeing for a while and was a paramedic so I trusted his ability to look after me. But more to the actual reason: I honestly wasn’t in the best of places emotionally and I sought out different ways to feel physical pain as a way to feel something other than the aching of my broken heart. I’m in no way saying that this is… Continue Reading

Diary of a Cam Girl


  Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a stripper, or to take your clothes off for money? Most ladies have toyed with this idea at least once in their lives, and honestly it can be a great and empowering way to pay your rent. But the idea tends to go just as quickly as it came when people consider the social implications and also the fact that you have to be confident enough to take your clothes off for strangers. It can be a nerve-wracking experience, so people tend to utilise this illicit style fantasy… Continue Reading

The Problem with a Monster Cock


  Since the days of school locker room comparisons, some guys have a real issue with penis size. Is it too small? Is it too thin? Is it big and thick enough to provide adequate pleasure? Are you man enough to handle a big hunk of sausage? We girls all have our similar hang-ups when it comes to boob sizes, so we get it. As a general rule amongst males, it seems preferable that guys have big giant monster dicks, and some girls dig this too. But I’m about to squash your dreams. Sorry. I’ve had all manner of dicks… Continue Reading

Seeking a Boyfriend for the End of the World


  I have been single for about a year and a half now and while my needs may have changed during that period, I have never stopped searching for a romantic partner. In my fundamental core I want a person that I am attracted to, am compatible with, have great sex with, and can grow with — is that so much to ask? Apparently it is, because I am still searching for that partner to cuddle up on the couch with, go out to dinner with and have adventures with. It just never seems to work out. Maybe it’s because… Continue Reading

An Ode To Face Sitting


  Oral pleasure is one of my favourite sexual acts and it is always interesting when your partner and you come up with different ways to incite your favourite pleasures. But what happens if you dive into a deeper world of sexual fantasies and experimentation, only to find the act in question – while consensual – is also dangerous? This was a unique situation I found myself in with a guy I was dating who loved asphyxiation via face sitting. Now depending on the person, face sitting isn’t necessarily everyone’s cup of tea – it certainly isn’t mine, and it… Continue Reading