Playing The Part: The Time I Followed a Porn Star’s Advice

 

Those of you who may be living under a rock may not know the joys of Jesse Jane — one of the adult entertainment world’s biggest stars. Jesse has starred in over a hundred pornographic videos and features with the pornographic studio Digital Playground, including Pirates and Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge, which are to date the most expensive porn movies ever made. She’s also starred in tons of movies based on every sexy costume you can think of including military themes, fire-women, nurses, cheerleaders and babysitters.

Jesse Jane is one of the most popular and successful names in porn. She is very… energetic… when it comes to blowjobs and it is very impressive just how deep she can take a cock.

Her enthusiasm actually kind of scares me.

However, I am so impressed by Jesse Jane’s sexual empire that when I heard she was coming to a porn store near me to promote her movie Body Heat I knew I just had to go. I went with my then husband and joined the line of maybe a hundred guys and a handful of girls at my favourite sex shop waiting to meet the world’s biggest porn star and get some advice.

As we shuffled in I could see the lady herself on a special set up stage. She was taking photos with patrons with either her boobs out or her boobs tucked in depending how pervy you wanted your photo to be and I couldn’t believe I was seeing the Jesse Jane’s boobs in the flesh while waiting in line!

But it was nothing compared to hugging them. When it was my turn to approach the biggest adult film star in the world I was in awe. She was so lovely, and so little, and she pulled me straight in for a hug against those massive tits. If you have ever seen them bouncing around in one of her videos you will be surprised how wonderfully soft they were. It was like hugging a pillow!

We took a great photo together (apparently we looked like best friends according to my ex-husband — and no she wasn’t flashing the camera in our photo) and Jesse proceeded to chat to me while we waited for our photo to print for her to sign.

Not one to pass up a great opportunity I asked Jesse the one question of advice she would have for someone like me in my stage of life.

‘What sex advice could you give to a couple who are recently married?’ I asked.

While the sex I had with my husband was good we had certainly ran into our share of problems in the bedroom. Despite the fact Jesse wasn’t married or didn’t really have any qualifications to give sex advice, I figured she would probably know how to get the juices flowing for potentially camera-shy males she may have worked with.

‘Costumes are always a fun way to keep things new and exciting!’ Jesse told me in a bouncy and happy way. ‘Use dress ups to create a different scene — that’s what I do!’ she brandished to the cover of her new DVD, in which she was dressed up as a very sexy fire-woman.

‘What do you think I would look best as?’ I asked her, really just wanting to hear a compliment from a porn star.

Jesse regarded me seriously for a minute. ‘I think you would make a really sexy cop,’ she said, ‘Or a nurse! A nurse is always good because you can “nurse him back to health” when he is feeling sad!’ she laughed. ‘That would totally be sexy!’ She finished, signing my copy of our photo and the DVD I bought of her. ‘Have a good night love!’ she said, hugging me with those soft tits again.

 

The Time I Followed a Porn Star’s Advice

 

I left feeling pretty high. I mean, it’s not every day that the Jesse Jane tells you that you would make a sexy cop or a sexy nurse in the sack. I decide that I would heed Jesse’s advice and bring a little bit of spicy roll-play into the bedroom.

Despite being relatively new at being married, my husband and I were a little sexually disconnected. I have always had a very high sex drive compared to him so found my advances being turned down more often than not. It can be very damaging emotionally to be turned down so often and I usually always went to bed feeling like there was something wrong with me, or that I was being somewhat sexually abusive whenever I tried any advances on my husband. I still have psychological issues at the idea of being turned down and not being good enough but since the dissolution of my marriage I have come to the realisation that it was 100% not me.

But at this stage of our marriage, I was willing to try anything to get the sexual spark going, and if one of the reigning queens of porn told me that dressing up like a sexy cop would reignite that fire than I was very willing to try it!

The costume I decided to try was the sexy cop so I went out and bought the cop basics of a hat and handcuffs. One evening when we were both feeling in the mood I put on a skimpy blue shirt that I buttoned just below my sexy lace black bra, a black tight pencil skirt and the hat before I came out of the bedroom, grabbed my husband and pushed him down onto the bed.

‘I’ve heard through the radio that you’ve been a naughty boy,’ I told him, dropping into a sexy authoritarian voice as I straddled him on the bed. ‘Do you know what we do to naughty boys like you?’ I whispered in his ear, ‘They get punished.’

I started feeling him get hard — it was working!

I pushed him back onto the bed and pulled the handcuffs from the belt I was wearing and attached him to the bed. I tore off the buttons on my shirt and slipped by mini skirt upwards, taking control of the situation and his cock. ‘Tell me how bad you’ve been,’ I demanded of him underneath me as I worked him up and down, the metal of the cuffs biting into his wrists.

Look, I know handcuffing someone to a bed is pretty PC — especially if you’ve since had experiences like mine where I burst a blood vessel in my eye from being trussed up in a vice — but at the time this wasn’t usually a sex act we would do. We were pretty PC at this point in our life, so dressing up and using handcuffs was a new thing for us. I was really getting into the idea of ‘punishing’ him and I felt the inner dominatrix in me relish in the control I had.

Needless to say, I have since heeded Jesse Jane’s advice in a series of different scenarios and for different guys. I dressed up in the classic sexy nurse outfit that you can buy from the naughty section of Bra’s N Things and nursed my partner ‘back to health’ as Jesse suggested. I played the part of the sexy secretary caught masturbating in her boss’s office. Even more recently I went with less of a theme and more of a dominatrix vibe as I strutted into my lover’s bedroom on his birthday in stripper heels, a cage bra, and a faux leather tight pencil skirt which he unzipped down the length of my rounded ass that sat across his lap.

As fucking sexy as that was, the cop outfit has always remained as one of my favourite memories of playing dress ups because it was one of the first. It started my sexual fire with my husband again and it was so sexy and powerful to be the one taking charge for a change.

If you’re looking for something to spice up your relationship I can tell you quite enthusiastically to follow Jesse’s advice and get some costumes. It really does add some fun to your own little playground!

So who are you going to be?

 

Bunny Butterscotch

Bunny Butterscotch

Bunny Butterscotch knows the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to a modern day sex life and isn't afraid to talk about it. With a high sex drive and a dirty mind, Bunny navigates her collection of real life sexual encounters and learning curves with an honest outlook. She is a professional writer and author from Canberra.

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